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>HYPOCRITICAL MESS!!!

>Okay so I’ve been following Kandee Johnson for over a year now and up until the last month or so I was believed everything..so ashamed to admit that. I started watching her make-up videos and to be honest there are some good ones, but when all hell broke loose over her being a scammer and liar I jumped right in to defend her. How could people be so mean and judgmental to her??? Well, fortunatly I started doing a little research on her and connected with other people that had a bone to pick with her so to speak. I am shocked that someone that preaches love and light all the time could be such a manipulative biotch!!!

I guess what turned me off of her was her constant pitty party for one, claiming how she made mistakes by having children and had to give up her dreams, blah, blah, blah. OH lets not forget her comments about how she can’t afford certain designer labels for her kids…

This pisses me off so much because I know people who are struggling mothers, don’t get child support, have to work two jobs to provide for their kids. Thats the thing I guess..THEY WORK!
I could not imagine having a child and regretting it. Thing is if she felt this way, why continue having 3 more?? With three different fathers???

I understand having to give up or put your dreams on hold to raise your kids, but to constantly go on and on and on about how poor you are…do something about it.

Maya Angelou said it best:

If you don’t like someothing about your life, change it!

I don’t have enoguh time to get further into detail about this mess of a woman nor do I care to but just wanted to post these thoughts on her!!

2011
03/28
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>SCARED STRAIGHT!!!

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Sooooo, as of last night I found out my in laws were going to be coming to town in the next week!!!! ARRRRRRRGGGGHHHHH!!! To be quite frank, we don’t get along, they don’t like anyone, even their own son in law of over 10 years!!! I’m starting to freak out, had the worst sleep ever last night thinking about their arrival…

Seeing as my last post was on judgemental people..this story will fit in perfectly!!!

Here’s the back story, when my and my man met he had a roommate( from here on she will be referred to as “skank”) Soooo, just a few short weeks after we met I ended up getting pissed of and calling her a whore bag!! Which she was, lol I just happened to have been honest enough to say it out loud!! She would run her mouth to my BF’s ex (who he shares a kid with) and from there it was like a game of telephone..she would then run to his parents (who live in the same province/city) and tell them what she had heard..always making the skank look like a victim…

So when I finally met his parents 8 months into dating him, I could tell right away they had already made their minds up about me, questioning why I didn’t like the skank? Seeing as she was such a good friend and blah, blah, blah..(the friend part was totally exagerated by them, my BF couldn’t stand her)

So in the next few months me and the skank got into a HUUUUGGGE fight and she ended up moving out ( after making a huuuggge production of how she was the victim in all of this and I had “kicked” her out!!!) NOT TRUE!!!

I’m not going to get into too much detail about why, the point is SHE’s GONE, SHE’s GONE!! Hooray!!!!

Back to his ‘rents, they blamed me for her moving out, even though my BF told them he was the one who wanted her out, not me.

To this very day, they judge me based on what they’ve heard, most of it being untrue of course but they judge me. You’d think that after being with thier son for over 3 years would give them some sort of indication that he’s happy… So this brings me to today.

I’m not sure which parent is coming up to Edmonton…but either or..it’s freaking me out!!!

All I’ve ever wanted was to get along with them..and it’s so sad that they have made their own opinions on me based on what they have been told by a not so credible source. ( my mans cheatin ex)

So I’m gonna try to grin and bare yet another uncomfortable visit with them, hoping and praying this one will be different (it won’t)

2011
03/02
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>What do/how much do you really see??

>I’ve been doing tons of post on diet/fitness/nutrition..etc. But I wanted to do a post “image”

It’s human nature to look at someone and either think that person is attractive or not. We all do it. But how much do you really see of that person when you’re passing by? You see a girl/woman that is fit/thin, and automatically associate that with them being good at their job, have tons of friends, good in bed(this is what most pigs would think) healthy, etc. etc. We are so programmed to see someone that looks good on the outside and ASSUME everything is good and pretty on the inside. Just as if we see an overweight woman/man and ASSUME they are lazy,lonely, UN-healthy, etc, etc. It’s like the picture I added to this post of a lotus flower. Lotus flowers usually grow in the mud, what looks ugly on the surface but once it blooms it comes to life with beautiful colors…

I personally have friends of all shapes and sizes and don’t care to judge a person based on their body type. To be quite honest I used to have a friend back in the day that thought it was perfectly okay to try to make a move on one of my ex’s because in her twisted little mind she deserved him more than I did. He was fit, athletic & I was a few lbs. overweight. Needless to say I’m not with that douchlord anymore and definatly NOT friends with her either!! lol

Sure there are certain circumstances, I know I could never be in a relationship with a man that was overweight. I know I’m kind of contradicting myself here. But I prefer a fit guy. Same as height I could NEVER date a guy shorter than me!! lol

But in as seriousness here, what gives us the right to walk past a person and name call? point fingers? I’ve seen it so many times, I wrote a blog post a few days back about the “bitches” putting down a woman at the gym.

Another example of this, I know a girl that will NOT be caught dead going out to a club with one of her “fat” friends because she thinks people will judge her….um…you’re doing that before you even get to the dance floor hunny!!!! I’ve told her this and she honestly believes that she is justified in thinking this way.

I’ve also noticed it happen to me, my BF is tall, fit, athletic..and then theres me.. a little overweight. I’ve seen the looks from people from time to time. But stopped giving a damn because they DON’T know me or him to make that big of an impact in my life.

My point is this, if we just judge a person based on what we see on the outside aren’t we really missing out on how wonderful and special they could be on the inside???

So the next time you’re walking down the mall or somewhere and you see a person that is skinny or overweight don’t just judge them on their outter appereance.

2011
03/02
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judgemental
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